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  1. The Habit of Recognising God’s Provision

    May 17, 2013 by bekkyb

    By Oswald Chambers

     

    We are made “partakers of the diving nature” (2 Peter 1:4), receiving and sharing God’s own nature through His promises. Then we have to work that divine nature into our human nature by developing godly habits. The first habit to develop is the habit of recognising God’s provision for us. We say, however, “Oh, I can’t afford it.” One of the worst lies is wrapped up in that statement. We talk as if our heavenly Father has cut us off without a penny! We think it is a sign of true humility to say at the end of the day, “Well, I just barely got by today, but it was a severe struggle.” And yet all of Almighty God is ours in the Lord Jesus! And He will reach to the lat grain of sand and the remotest star to bless us if we will only obey Him.

    Does it really matter that our circumstances are difficult? Why shouldn’t they be! If we give way to self-pity and indulge in the luxury of misery, we remove God’s riches from our lives and hinder others from entering into His provision. No sin is worse than the sin of self-pity, because it removes God from the throne of our lives, replacing Him with our own self-interest. It cause us to open our mouths only to complain, and we simply become spiritual sponges – always absorbing, never giving, and never being satisfied. And there is nothing lovely or generous about our lives.

    Before God becomes satisfied with us, He will take everything of our so-called wealth, until we learn the He is our Source; as the pslamist said, “All my springs are in You” (Psalm 87.7). If the majesty, grace and power of God are not being exhibited in us, God holds us responsible. “God is able to make all grace abound toward you, that you… may have an abundance…” (2 Corinthians 9:8) – then learn to lavish the grace of God on others, generously giving of yourself. Be marked and identified with God’s nature, and His blessing will flow through you all the time.

     


    We are still learning these lessons. Don’t complain – because when you do, you fail to recognise all that God has done for you. Like everyone always says – if you set your sights on being wealthy, it will consume you: never will the day come when you can look around and say, “yep! That’s it. I’m completely happy with what I have now.” Then the newest TV or car or designer lounge room comes along and you’re stuck in the habit of wanting a particular standard, which consumerism has just make redundant.

    We’re learning it slowly, the hard way. I thought we’d gotten there – a little extra money flowed into our bank accounts, just enough to get a few things, but it was gone again quick as that and all of a sudden my car needs servicing and new tyres and windscreen fix; we couldn’t quite make the rent, not yet; each thing – necessities, I’m tempted to call them – being put off again, again, again because we can’t afford it just yet.

    Still I refuse to acknowledge the Source. Maybe in the quiet moments, when I’ve had time to gather my thoughts and reflect. But those are rare and it’s in the midst of everything, then I forget who’s really in control.  I open my mouth to complain. Words come tumbling out about our tiny house with the log fire heating, about the empty cupboards, empty bank accounts, the cost of driving out from the country each day.

    What a difference it would make – Lord grant me this – that instead of complaining, I open my mouth to praise, always; never to complain. Because the earth and everything in it is the Lord’s, and he has promised to be our provider, our safety. So long as we trust in jobs and people and our own abilities, we risk being disappointed over and over. If we trust in God, if we believe in what he has to offer, then even if we lost all our material possessions we would still rejoice in Him because only when trusting fully in Him are we freed from the burden of caring about what the world has to offer – because all it has to offer is endless greed, needless consumerism, and ultimately a hatred of self and others.

     


  2. 30 Day Challenge: The Results

    May 17, 2013 by bekkyb

    My 30-day challenge ended a few days ago.  I have forgotten what one of my three challenges were, and am looking it up in my original post.

    Ok, got it!

    1. Don’t complain
    2. Wake up early
    3. 10-15 minutes of tidying

    And I challenged myself to meet those goals every day. How did I go? Pretty terrible! Forgetting what my challenges were was never going to help. I really needed to review them on a regular basis (just like I’m supposed to have reviewed my New Year’s Resolutions once a month and haven’t done it once!). The no-complaining thing especially quickly slipped my mind – it’s such an ingrained habit to complain, not only personally, but culturally. But reading through some devotions by Oswald Chambers helped to remind me why I set that challenge in the first place, and I’m keen to take it up again.

    The waking up early thing was doomed to failure. I have never been able to wake up early. However, I may have discovered why – a built-in circadian rhythm disorder that makes me sleep and wake at times outside of the “social norm.” While it meant abandoning my challenge, it did help me to realise that there are better ways to structure my life, and to work with Sean, to make use of the time I *am* awake and happening, and reduce the stress of feeling like I *should* be awake and happening in the wee hours of the morning (ie before 10:30 am).

    Tidying – I’m not actually sure what my daily habit has been there! I’ve been doing a bit of cleaning up and such, maybe more than I used to? I don’t actually know :/

    So the up-shot of it all is this: I forgot about two of the challenges, and decided a third was not well-suited to me as an individual. I’d like to set a new challenge soon, and plan some strategies for undertaking it a little more successfully.


  3. 30 day challenge update

    April 16, 2013 by bekkyb

    A few days ago I decided to do a 30 day challenge (or 3, as the case may be). On my list were: getting up early in the morning, not complaining, and performing 10-15 minutes of housework each day. How have I gone over the last three days? Welllllll……

    30 day challenge update

    The waking up early thing basically just hasn’t happened. When I say basically, I mean that I’ve tried to justify it by saying that it *felt* early to me. If you consider 10:30am early… and isn’t it all relative anyway? No. I have not been getting up early. Or going to bed early, which is where the problem starts in the first place. Need to work on that one!

    The housework has been OK. Not the first day – we were out. But yesterday I did the dishes, and today I did some tidying, so I’m feeling pretty good about that one. Win!

    The not complaining thing has been the toughest challenge. The first day, I realised I didn’t even have a working definition of what actually constituted a complaint! I went to the dictionary, and decided to broaden my definition beyond that most basic of complaints, the bitch session – where you pick an object or situation, and apply negative adjectives to it. More broadly, it’s talking about things which bother you, and you can find all kinds of “nice” ways to put that, but it still ends up a complaint.

    These last two days I have started to recognise when I’ve made a complaint. At first it was only after I’d said something, but then today I actually managed to stop myself from saying something negative. Then I started talking with Sean about it, and he began to realise how much he complains. It looks like becoming a shared challenge, which is the best kind!

    So that’s how things have gone so far. I’m still working on it – just because I don’t always successfully complete a challenge doesn’t mean I’m going to go ahead and give up on it altogether.

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  4. 30 day challenge to form new habits

    April 13, 2013 by bekkyb

    Ever heard someone say that it takes 30 days to make a new habit? The 30 day challenge is a little bit of motivation to get out and start some habits you’d love to have in your life…

    I was just reading a fantastic article <<here>>. It has a list of 30 different challenges you can undertake, over the course of 30 days (not all thirty at once, mind – maybe pick just one, or a handful, at once). They each offer different potential outcomes – overcoming fears, gaining new skills, improving health and well-being, and more. The basic point is just to try something out, and make it a habit through regular practice.

    After reading <<this article>> on the realities of a life that has been constructed for us out of pure corporate greed, some of these challenges are looking mighty appealing. The truth is, we are so disconnected from “life” – that thing where we satisfy our basic needs, and feel supreme satisfaction in doing so. We’ve been conditioned into believing that life is this rat-race of work-work-work, spend your hard-earned dollars on consumer goods marketed to make you feel good about yourself (but ultimately incapable of delivering this dream), and try to fit the real stuff of life into the pre-packaged options provided by businesses. Hence “family time” is usually conducted in front of a TV or at a paid-entry theme park; exercise is contained within the walls of a gym; and experiences with nature are what you get when you pay $6000 for a trip to Thailand.

    I am choosing a few challenges to try out over the next thirty days, starting tomorrow (since today is nearly all gone and that would feel like cheating). I’ll write about the success of this venture here – obviously I won’t be doing a tech-free challenge!

    1. Don’t complain for a whole day. Sounds easy, right? I think this could end up being one of the hardest challenges of my life. I want to try it out for the whole thirty days and see how many of those days I can get through without complaining once. I’ll try to replace my natural desire to complain with a faith-based drive to express gratitude and thankfulness.
    2. Wake up early each day. This is going to be amazingly hard! I love my sleep. I am quite a lucid dreamer, and remember large portions of my dreams, so particularly the morning stages of sleep – with the increased frequency of the dream stage of sleep – is highly valued. But it’s something I’ve been trying to work at, partly because I want to do my Bible study in the mornings. It’ll mean early nights and heaps of discipline.
    3. Perform 10-15 minutes of tidying each day. This will make my husband ecstatic. Not because he actually does this, necessarily, but because he’s always saying how we should because it’ll help keep the house much cleaner and tidier. Maybe it’ll help to inspire him.

    So these are my challenges for the next 30 days.

    30 day challenge


  5. Sugar Free Diet: Day 2

    April 5, 2013 by bekkyb

    I have been doing some thinking about this sugar free diet. This is what I’ve been thinking: it needs to involve common sense. I’m saying that because I was wondering what the “rules” are about what you can and can’t eat on this diet, and it all just seemed complicated even to wonder such things. Memorising lists of “good” and “bad” foods is exhausting. So I’m going to start out with common sense and work out the finer details later.

    As a good first step, I didn’t eat any chocolate today. That may be a lie – I might have had some dark chocolate, but I’m not counting that. I am beginning to consider how I can systematically reduce the amount of sugar in our house, and start buying things which are sugar-free (but not things with artificial sweeteners as substitutes, as they seem to be even more unhealthy, in different ways).

    For a start, anything overtly sugary is officially out: cakes, biscuits and lollies will not enter this house! Sugar itself is going to have to find a substitute, or we’ll simply find new and different recipes that are nomcious AND naturally sugar free. To compensate for this loss, I’ll have to concentrate more on increasing our intake of veggies, low GI carbohydrate foods (brown rice, wholegrain bread, etc) and quality meat and dairy. You know, the usual.

    Tomorrow will be a challenge. I’m out at a course, a bit more than an hour away from home. Can I organise myself enough to create some sort of homemade lunch to take with me? I sure hope so, because the options are… McDonald’s and KFC. Ew.